Thursday, August 26, 2010

It's Official!

We did it - we passed court!!! Nathan Mohammed Brogdon, you are officially ours!


We only have a few minutes to post this so I'll do a more thorough job later, but for now just know that court was a little nerve-wracking. We had the "hard" judge who they call Texas because she has huge blonde hair. Everyone here is very stern looking...don't smile very often in pictures or formal situations so that's rough too. Clint gave the main speech with all the details (very patriarchal society) and I gave a short emotional one. 

They asked a bunch of questions and one of the main issues was Clint's job (thought we might be adopting in order to grow our church). They also had some misconceptions about "baptist" because here it has a totally different connotation. They questioned me about whether we were allowed to seek medical care and random things like that. Another major problem for the prosecutor was that not many people had been shown N-M. She wanted to have more people look at him before they selected a family. Everyone else there told her that the reason more people haven't seen him is because nobody wants him since he is so "old". Sad but true in the adoption world. Anyway, we were in great hands with our team here (and of course the Big Guy's hands as well!) and they finally made their decision -- we couldn't be happier! 


Ministry of Education lady, baby house doctor, Olga (coordinator here)
We are also excited because at 3pm today we get to take little N-M out of 'jail' to go get his passport photo taken. This will be our first time out and we think we'll go get some ice cream too. 

Yesterday as we were bringing Nathan back inside he said America and looked really sad. As we headed to his room he started crying pretty hard and wouldn't let go of me. Clint ran outside to get Igor so we could ask his caregivers what was wrong and it turns out he knows we're leaving soon and he wants to go back to America with us now. It was really heartbreaking and now we're dreading our visit tomorrow (last one before we leave) even more. It looks like we'll fly to Almaty on Saturday and then leave for the states on Sunday at 4am. Should be in DC later on Sunday and then back to GA on Wednesday. So glad to be heading home but we'll miss our little guy terribly. 

10 comments:

  1. congrats we are so happy for you but sad that you have to leave your little guy this is one part of Kaz adoptions I really do not understand it seems so unfair but I am sure the time will pass quickly and only too soon he will be here in the US where he belongs !!!!!

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  2. A year ago this month you heard god speak! He was with you all today in court and spoke again that Nathan will be yours forever! I have chill bumps all over my body, I can't imagine the roller coaster of events in 3 days. I pray you all have the best time ever as a family today getting his passport and especially ice cream. Have a safe trip home and let the countdown begin when Nathan will be home in the US!

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  3. When I clicked on the picture of the 4 of you to see it larger guess what song popped into my head......"We are FAMILY"!!!!!

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  4. Congratulations! What an amazing day in KAZ!

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  5. Congratulations on passing court! I know what a relief that is. Having been there just last year the time will go faster than you think. He will be home soon. Safe travels and Godspeed.

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  6. Hello Brogdon family! Congratulations! We are thrilled with your news! We live in TN by the way. I noticed you are flying into GA ? Georgia? Was wondering how close to us you were!
    God Bless you as you travel home.
    The Hollands

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  7. Yay! I am so happy to hear the good news! Though I am sad that you will have to leave N-M behind for awhile. I am hoping that it is a very short while. In any case, hopefully he at least understands at this age that you will be back and perhaps you can have Igor or someone deliver messages to him from you. I just can't wait to see him go home to America with his forever family. I've got tears in my eyes just thinking about this!

    p.s. We made it home without event and are jet lagged but doing really well.

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  8. so, so happy for you!! congratulations a million times over!!! you have a beautiful new son and he has a wonderful new family! sending you all big hugs :)

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  9. Congratulations! I am so happy for you and that VERY handsome new son of yours. Leaving him sounds so heartbreaking. Makes me terribly sad that the system is what it is. Hopefully the days will fly by quickly.

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  10. Just checked now... CONGRATS!!
    so happy for you!!

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